Committed

This is hard to explain unless you witness and live it.
The "mid singles" world is so very different than you could imagine. It's full of people wanting second chances at love...but the problem is, a lot of them haven't healed from what caused the heart ache in the first place. They seem to blame the church and make themselves feel like they don't fit in so they give up and start living a life of the world. (drinking, immoral, stop going to church completely) its so sad for me to see. I can't begin to tell you how many guys I've gone on dates with that it comes up in conversation that they "sometimes" go to church etc...
What a red flag. Where are the men that have committed themselves to the gospel. It's a scary vicious cycle.

The truth is...yes, some weeks you don't feel like you fit in as you sit in the back of the chapel watching everyone take care of their kids. Men with their arm around their wives. And so on and so on...
But if you are committed to the gospel it really shouldn't matter. :)...just sayin!